Its nice to have reminders

Last weekend my ex and I were having an argument via Facebook IM. I was mad because I had asked him to take Sammie overnight while I had Alex. He said he contacted her, but he didn't, and I was mad because the kids were bickering.

It was getting on my nerves, so I sent Ed an IM and called him out. I was a bit snarky but so was he. Nothing out of the ordinary was said.

Until he said PS, fuck off.

I was stunned. I had been going along thinking we were actually friends. Apparently, I was quite mistaken. I didn't respond. The next day he made a half-assed apology, blaming it on his girlfriend. I didn't accept it, and things went downhill from there.

As mad as I've been at him, I'm happy that he did this. It was the push I needed to sever all remaining ties. For no reason other than sheer laziness, I've procrastinated doing all the tedious chores that need to be done when one is divorced and changes their name.

Bank, social security, DMV...I took care of it all the other day. I took Ed and Alex off my cell plan. I feel like I've finally made all the changes needed to go forward with my life.

I'm in a great relationship with a man that I love very much. He treats me (and Sammie) very well. I'm looking forward to what our future holds.

And in the mean time, I have this to remind me to never let my guard down with Ed:






-- Post From My iPhone